Saturday, May 25, 2013

A LETTER TO MY 13 YEAR OLD SELF


You will be more beautiful than you will ever realize.  Do not waste a second worrying about what others think of you.  Learn to trust your own intuition it is strong and it will guide you.  This is one of the gifts of being a woman.  You will be courageous and fearless in your pursuit of what is right and what is just.  You are a kind, funny, and compassionate girl.  These traits will grow and develop as you grow into a woman. 

Do not mistake sexuality for power, as this type of power is short lived. Your true power comes from your compassion, tenacity and determination.  Do not mistake physical affection for love.  Love is much more!  Do not seek physical affection in order to feel love or value, as it may compromise the love you have for yourself. 

Love and appreciate the body that God gives you, it will carry you through this life.  Take care of your body, nourish your body and cherish its uniqueness.  Love your curves (really love your curves).  Avoid women’s fashion magazines - they will not nourish your soul and will create feelings of inadequacy.  Do not compare yourself to other women, this is a never ending battle that you will never win.  You are unique.  You are more than your physical appearance. Your body and your appearance are not your value; your loving heart, mind and inner strength are what will define you. 

Being a woman is exciting, you get to share the camaraderie of other wonderful women.  Do not judge other women.  We are all on the same path.  We need to work together and support each other to make the journey a little easier.   Have fun with being a woman, wear pretty, sexy and sometime ridiculous clothes. Occasionally buy more shoes or handbags than your budget permits.  If necessary choose beautiful shoes over comfort sometimes and never apologize for being feminine.  In the famous words of Lee Ann Womack “And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance.   Dance....I hope you dance.”

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