Getting up in the morning, personal hygiene, breakfast or no breakfast, what we are going to wear today, etc. When our actions derive from self-belief, love or sense of higher purpose, then we are edging closer to our true meaning. When actions are driven by fear; the desire to please others or avoid displeasing others, then each action drives us further from our true purpose and happiness.
We intrinsically know who we are, however, this can become clouded if we choose to ignore our inner compass and please others or seek external validation from others. Our fear and insecurities drive behaviours and decision making that is not authentic, moving us away from the life we want.
Today I was looking at my year in review on Facebook, and I had a sudden epiphany. On paper (on Facebook at least) my life seems amazing. I had travelled all over the world in the last 12 months, Czech Republic, Malaysia, Canada, Cyprus and I had some beautiful photos of me with friends and family. It was a great year, but I could have lived my life more authentically. I am typically consumed by trying to please others. I was conditioned to do this as a child and despite my best efforts it tends to be my default position. At times I take small steps towards my true calling, however, this usually derailed by my insecurities.
My mission for 2015 is to put one foot in front of another, mindfully and with an intention. I choose to manifest a life that is meaningful and authentic.
“You were born with potential. You were born with goodness and trust. You were born with ideals and dreams. You were born with greatness. You were born with wings. You are not meant for crawling, so don’t. You have wings. Learn to use the and fly.” - Rumi
